About me

A safe, reliable space to do the real work — together.

I'm Kate Lappin, a relational and psychodynamic therapist in New York City. Whether we realize it or not, our past experiences shape how we show up in our relationships and how we see ourselves — and sometimes those old patterns leave us feeling stuck, anxious, or not quite ourselves.

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Now accepting new clients
How I work

We'll look at the why behind your emotional habits — and the roles you've felt forced to play to survive and belong.

These aren't just things to "talk about" — they're feelings that need to be felt and worked through within a real, supportive connection. That's exactly what I aim to provide.

My approach is rooted in relational and psychodynamic therapy, which is a fancy way of saying we'll figure out what actually matters to you — helping you learn how to set boundaries and finally put yourself first. I'll be honest: I don't have a magic wand or an overnight fix. Real change takes time. But I will be right there with you.

What it's like to work with me

Interactive, non-judgmental, and honest.

I won't sugarcoat it — this process can bring up some tough stuff. But I promise you won't be navigating it alone. My style is non-judgmental, genuinely curious, and very interactive; you won't just be talking to a silent wall.

I love working with fellow New Yorkers from all walks of life who are ready to dig into who they really are and build a life that actually feels like their own.

— Kate Lappin, LMHC

Anxiety Relationships Self-worth Boundaries
Credentials & logistics

The practical details.

Licensure
Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC), New York State · License #000000
Modalities
Relational & psychodynamic psychotherapy
Fees & insurance
$XXX per session · limited sliding-scale spots · out-of-network with superbills
Location
Telehealth across New York State · in-person in New York City

Ready when you are.

Reach out for a free consultation. Tell me a little about what brings you in, and we'll find a time to talk.

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